1. Boost his ego- Now most men won't admit this, but they do want to hear every now and then how much you love them, how much you love their body, and how hot they make you feel when you are around them. So when you see your man give a little squeeze at his biceps or even his butt and tell him honestly from the heart how strong of a man he is and how you can't keep your hands off of him. This might make him feel very studly, more confidence, and loved because you are paying tribute to his protective side or manly side.
2. Show him that you interested in his hobbies- If he enjoys football surprise him even if you don't care for the game that much without asking you. Grab a pillow, blanket, some popcorn, and sit and watch the game with him. You can even record the game for him if he isn't home from work yet. Maybe while watching the game during the commercials have him explain to you what the game is about if you're really not familiar with it. Grab his hand, massage his back, massage his neck or just plant a kiss on him during the commercials. Don't just sit there like a bump on a log and think to yourself OK when is this darn game gonna be over. Enjoy it you will be surprised sometimes how interested you will become, you might even end up liking it more than him. Your man enjoys what you do so why can't you enjoy what he does? This will benefit the two of you and bring you closer together.
3. Try to lighten his load- After a hard day of work men seem to get more aggravated and annoyed if they had a bad day at work. It frustrates them to the point of them sometimes yelling and screaming at either you or someone in your family. They may not mean it, but this is how they get. Be prepared for when he comes home have dinner ready, smile when he walks through the door, approach him with a passionate kiss, then sit down for dinner together. Let him tell you about his day, how it went, and if he's upset why. Do yourself a favor lend your ear and let him vent. When he's done then ask him how he feels about what happened, what's he gonna do to make it better, and if he is OK. Don't tell him what to do, suggest what he can do otherwise this can cause a huge fight. When couples are upset they might say things that they really don't mean, but once the damage is done one of you are gonna get hurt. Be each others friend not just their lover.
4. Always admit to your mistakes- I have known many women that have such a hard time admitting they are wrong This is one thing that men can not stand. If you are wrong say you are wrong, don't try to twist the truth around to make it out like your husband is always wrong and never you. Nobody is perfect well except for my cat. No matter what sometime in our marriage we are all wrong even if it's something silly like the score on the football game it all counts to admitting we're wrong.
5. Do not bring up past problems- Just stick in your head past is past this is present. Men don't like discussing past problems they rather leave them at that. Don't start discussing any bad news to him the minute he walks through the door. That's not the first thing they want to hear after a long hard day of work. They want to come home eat, relax, and see how your day went and the kids if any. Your marriage could be so beautiful, but once you start bringing up past things he may of said or done, it can instantly make you upset, him upset and a rocky road ahead so don't do it.
6. Mmmmmm............ If this all fails in the mood for a little one on one? Strip down each others clothes to your birthday suits and climb yourselves into the bed for a lovely snooze in the buff. In most cases I feel if he had a bad day and you had a bad day the body's together will prime each other for a romantic moment. The best part is the while doing this you both will be focusing on your favorite thing, no not sex, but each other!!
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